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Thursday, May 6, 2010

What is hard to break?

WHAT is it that's hard to break???


Diamonds are hard to find but not hard to


Break.


What is the hardest thing to break then?


The answer is: HABIT !


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If you break the H, you still have A BIT .


If you break the A, you still have BIT.


If you break the B, you still have IT!


Hey, after you break the T in IT,

 
there is still the 'I'.


And that (I ) is the root cause of all


the problems. Isn’t it right? !



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Now you know why HABIT


is so hard to break….


Its destiny is in its name!

Saturday, April 17, 2010

In order to succeed, your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Life is going to be tougher, prepare for it.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Love

Love the way, Love hurt me.

Friday, April 9, 2010

3 Questions

There was a young who went overseas to study for quite a long time. When he returned, he asked his parents to find him a religious scholar or any expert who could answer his 3 Questions. Finally, his parents were able to find a Muslim scholar.

Young man: Who are you? Can you answer my questions?

Scholar: I am one of Allah (SubHana Wa Ta`ala )'s slaves and Insha-Allah (God willing), I will be able to answer your questions.

Young man: Are you sure? A lot of Professors and experts were not able to answer my questions.

Scholar: I will try my best, with the help of Allah(SubHana Wa Ta`ala).

Young Man: I have 3 questions:

1. Does God exist? If so, show me His shape.

2. What is thaqdir (fate)?

3. If shaitan (Devil) was created from the fire, why at the end he will be thrown to hell that is also created from fire. It certainly will not hurt him at all, since Shaitan (Devil) and the hell were created from fire. Did God not think of it this far?

Suddenly, the Scholar slapped the young man's face very hard.

Young Man (feeling pain): Why do you get angry at me?

Scholar: I am not angry. The slap is my answer to your three questions.

Young Man: I really don't understand.

Scholar: How do you feel after I slapped you?

Young Man: Of course, I felt the pain.

Scholar: So do you believe that pain exists?

Young Man: Yes.

Scholar: Show me the shape of the pain!

Young Man: I cannot.

Scholar: That is my first answer. All of us feel God's existence without being able to see His shape... Last night, did you dream that you will be slapped by me?

Young Man: No.

Scholar: Did you ever think that you will get a slap from me, today?

Young Man: No.

Scholar: That is takdir (fate) my second answer........ My hand that I used to slap you, what is it created from?

Young Man: It is created from flesh.

Scholar: How about your face, what is it created from?

Young Man: Flesh.

Scholar: How do you feel after I slapped you?

Young Man: In pain.

Scholar: Thats it. this is my third answer, Even though Shaitan (Devil) and also the hell were created from the fire, if Allah wants, insha-Allah (God willing), the hell will become a very painful place for Shaitan

Allah (swt) said:
"If you are ashamed of me, I will be ashamed of you." If you are not ashamed, pass this message on...only if you believe.

"Yes, I love Allah. Allah is my fountain of Life and My Savior. Allah keeps me going day & night. Without Allah, I am no one. But with Allah, I can do everything. Allah is my strength."

May Allah help us all to succeed... Ameen.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

An Old Story

An old story but worth repeating ----------------

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican fishing village.
A tourist complimented the local fishermen
on the quality of their fish and asked
how long it took him to catch them.
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"Not very long." they answered in unison.
"Why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?"
The fishermen explained that
their small catches were sufficient to meet their needs and those of their families.
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"But what do you do with the rest of your time?"
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"We sleep late, fish a little, play with our children,
and take siestas with our wives.
In the evenings, we go into the village to see our friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar,
and sing a few songs.
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We have a full life."

The tourist interrupted,
"I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you!
You should start by fishing longer every day.
You can then sell the extra fish you catch.
With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."

"And after that?"
"With the extra money the larger boat will bring,
you can buy a second one and a third one
and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers.
Instead of selling your fish to a middle man,
you can then negotiate
directly with the processing plants
and maybe even open your own plant.

You can then leave this little village and move to   Mexico City , LosAngeles ,
or even   New York City !
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From there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?"
 "Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years."
replied the tourist.

"And after that?"

"Afterwards ? Well my friend,
that's when it gets really interesting, "
answered the tourist, laughing.
"When your business gets really big,
you can start buying and selling stocks
and make millions!"

"Millions? Really? And after that?"
asked the fishermen.

"After that you'll be able to retire,
live in a tiny village near the coast,
sleep late, play with your children,
catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife
and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends."

"With all due respect sir, but that's exactly what we are doing now. So what's the point wasting twenty-five years?" asked the Mexicans.

And the moral of this story is:
....... Know where you're going in life....
you may already be there!!
Life is short, So live to the fullest.

DAILY SURVIVAL KIT



Today, I am giving you a
DAILY SURVIVAL KIT

To help you each day............
 
Toothpick ... To remind you to pick the good qualities in everyone,including yourself.
 
Rubber band ... To remind you to be flexible. Things might not always go the way you want, but it can be worked out.
 
Band-Aid ... To remind you to heal hurt feelings, either yours or someone else's.
 
Eraser ... To remind you everyone makes mistakes. That's okay, we learn by our errors.
 
Candy Kiss ... To remind you everyone needs a hug or a compliment everyday.
 
Mint ... To remind you that you are worth a mint to your family & Me.
 
Bubble Gum ... To remind you to stick with it and you can accomplish anything.
 
Pencil ... To remind you to list your blessings every day.
 
Tea Bag ... To remind you to take time to relax daily.
 
This is what makes life worth living every minute, every day
 
 
Wishing you love, gratitude, friends to cherish, caring, sharing, laughter, music, and warm feelings in your heart.
 
I know this kit will help you get through the day.
 
 
 
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Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Mail from Papa

Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.

There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

"Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die. .......

One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? .......

It's ok, bunk a few classes, scoring low in couple of papers, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love, little fights with your spouse. We are people, not programmed devices........."

"Don't be serious, be sincere."
CHEERS

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Valueable

Its not the most valueable thing what you have in your life but whom you have.

Trust

It can take million lives to build trust but a few seconds to destroy.

Money

Money can buy you everything except happiness of relationships.

Marry

Don't marry a person with you can live but with the person, without them you can live.

Live your life

There are two eternities that can really break you down: Yesterday and tomorrow. One is gone and the other doesn't confirm, so live today happily.

Don't hurt anyone

it can take only a few seconds to hurt someone who loves you but can take a million years to heal.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Thursday, March 25, 2010

Be Happy always

Dont ever be sad.

Stop thinking about those moments which are not good ones in your life.

Collect happiness from everywhere you can.

Smile always. :O)

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Lessons in Logics

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Friday, March 12, 2010

Considering how dangerous everything is, nothing is really very frightening.--Gertrude Stein
Confront your fears, list them, get to know them, and only then will you be able to put them aside and move ahead.--Jerry Gillies
Common experience shows how much rarer is moral courage than physical bravery. A thousand men will march to the mouth of the cannon where won man will dare espouse an unpopular cause.--Clarence Darrow
"Come to the edge," He said. They said, "We are afraid." "Come to the edge," He said. They came. He pushed them...and they flew.--Guillaume Apollinaire
The bravest are surely those who have the clearest vision of what is before them, glory and danger alike, and yet notwithstanding, go out to meet it.--Thucydides
Bravery is the capacity to perform properly even when scared half to death.--General Omar Bradley
Because a fellow has failed once or twice, or a dozen times, you don't want to set him down as a failure till he's dead or loses his courage--and that's the same thing.--George Lorimer
Be bold. If you're going to make an error, make a doozy, and don't be afraid to hit the ball.--Billie Jean King
Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.--Helen Keller
Adventure can be an end in itself. Self-discovery is the secret ingredient that fuels daring.--Grace Lichtenstein

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

"A mighty pain to love it is, and 'tis a pain that pain to miss; but of all the pains, the greatest pain is to love, but love in vain."
— Abraham Crowley

Sunday, March 7, 2010

We bade farewell to this day knowing it could be our last

  The bugle sounds, the enemy wakes,

  The battle is upon us

  And in our hearts, we feel the swell, of pride and steel and valour

  For we will play the game of Blood if dark clouds shroud our land!

  Become this day we walk with death and laugh at its pale specter

  We will not fear those cruel swords our courage is far sharper

  We will not lower in the face of threats a head raised to its mother

  For let them know their cowardly deeds just serve to stoke our fires

  We bade farewell to this day knowing it could be our last

  We swore to play with our lives never waver in our task

  For we are but the last few guests served at fate's great banquet

  We cant quell the raging storm the spirit of revolution

  For it now courses in our veins like lava truly molten

  We will teach them the twin lessons of fear and fortitude

  Our goal cant now hide for long when courage is our beacon.

Monday, March 1, 2010

Destiny

Destiny is simply the strength of your desires. If you cry over a trouble, it grows double but if you laugh at it, it disappears like a bubble.



Be Happy :)

Friday, February 26, 2010

Shared by Sadia

Shared by Sadia

It all depends on our Attitude

Robert De Vincenzo, the great Argentine golfer, once won a tournament and, after receiving the check and smiling for the cameras, he went to the clubhouse and prepared to leave. Some time later, he walked alone to his car in the parking lot and was approached by a young woman.

She congratulated him on his victory and then told him that her child was seriously ill and near death. She did not know how she could pay the doctor's bills and hospital expenses.

De Vincenzo was touched by her story, and he took out a pen and endorsed his winning check for payment to the woman. "Make some good days for the baby," he said as he pressed the check into her hand.

The next week he was having lunch in a country club when a Professional Golf Association official came to his table. "Some of the boys in the parking lot last week told me you met a young woman there after you won that tournament." De Vincenzo nodded. "Well," said the official, "I have news for you. She's a phony. She has no sick baby. She's not even married. She fleeced you, my friend."

"You mean there is no baby who is dying?" said De Vincenzo.

"That's right," said the official.

"That's the best good news I've heard all week." De Vincenzo said.

Moral: Good news or bad news? It depends on how you see things. You can be bitter after cheated. Or you can choose to move on with your life...

Unique Ideas

Most people want to be successful in life. But what is the definition of success? What means to succeed in life? If you ask enough people they will tell you that "success" is different. The most common theme around success is power, money, happiness, love etc. From person to person this will vary. It always depends on what you are looking for in your personal and also in your business life.
  
There are some key factors that lead to a successful life:

Dream - You have to have a personal dream to follow.
 
Action - It is equally important to take the necissary actions in order to fulfill your dreams, because without action, nothing happens.
 
Faith - This is said to be the key factor that drives one towards success.
Lack of faith would only lead to failure.
 
Discipline- This is something that my mother had a big problem understanding, but it's important to be able to put off certain aspects of the good life now in order to succeed in the end and become what you want.
Enthusiasm to try and take risk - You must be enthusiastic even if you fail, over and over again. You should be willing to let your ships parish in order to WIN, WIN, WIN and never quit! write out a plan of action for steps and methods you would pursue to achieve y
Positive attitude - Positive attitude guarantees success. With positive attitude nothing is impossible. Thus, you are able to take dedicated action and follow certain plans, systems, which guarantee

Most people say that it's enough with "motivation", the "right attitude" and a lot of other hokey stuff, in order for you to succeed, but in reality, success is an ongoing achievements that we contantly focus on and take action on in our personal and professional life.

Some guidance here: Here are 6 secrets to success which have been advised and practiced by motivational gurus around the world:

1. Accept 100 percent accountability for your life - You are responsible for what happens with YOUR life. It's NOT ok to blame the media, government or your parents for your mistakes and failures. If you keep blaming people you'll soon learn that you in fact let them control you and when you realize this you'll start take responsibility for your own life and work towards your own success.

2. Live your life with purpose - When you live your life with a purpose, your main concern would be to do everything right. Your purpose would help you put your best efforts in everything you do.

3. Be Daring to take risk - It's true what they say.. nothing comes truly easy in this world, because in order to succeed there is almost always an equal or greater risk. So, be willing to take these risks and have faith that one day you'll succeed!

4. Stay focused - It's easy to get distracted when you are working towards a goal, so it's important that you don't let simple things distract you. Always keep an eye on the goal and visualize what you want and it will eventually manifest.

5. Draw a Plan of action - our goals. You need a map to reach your destination, right?

6. Stay committed - It's not enough to say "one day I'll be a millionaire" and they just let things "happen to you", you MUST go out there and take affirmative action on an ongoing basis in order to fully achieve. So stop procrastinating and become an action taker who is persistent and use this powerful force to allow yourself to have constantly committed actions manifested in you. Repeat, "Never give up, just one more time, one more time and I'll be there... just one more time, come on, I can do it!"

Many of us give up when we fail the first or second time in our attempts. But do you know the biggest secret of success in life?

Here is the big secret: It's impossible to get it right 100% of the time and it's because you fail that you'll learn what works and what doesn't. If you wait to get things right all the time you will be procrastinating for life. Perfection kills you. Instead, just keep going and succeed in everything you do.

Bill Gates says.....

Bill Gates had given a speech in High School about 11 rules/things they did not and will not learn in school. He talked about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Rule 1

Life is not fair – get used to it!

Rule 2

The world won’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.

Rule 3

You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.

Rule 4

If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.

Rule 5

Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.

Rule 6

If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about your mistakes, learn from them.

Rule 7

Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent’s generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.

Rule 8

Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they’ll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.

Rule 9

Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.

Rule 10

Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.

Rule 11

Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.